Prepare Before You Choose Custom Anniversary Invitations

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By Lessie Kaufman


Here are some tips to designing beautiful invitations with minimal stress. Choosing custom anniversary invitations to celebrate your special day is fun if you prepare for it. When you and your spouse have a private conversation about key decision points before you enter the store or design studio, you'll get what you want more quickly, cheaply, and with less hassle than if you walk in cold.

It's the job of a stationary designer and consultant to help you reach a decision about your invitations, but it's not quite that simple. Because commission is part of how these experts get paid, it's part of their job to try and make your shopping experience unfold as fast as possible, which can make the design decision stressful. It's also likely that they will present their most expensive, high quality offerings, which might not be right for your budget.

Before you start shopping, think about the cues your invitation will give to your guests about the kind of party you are throwing. Form a picture in your imagination of how your event will feel, and what it will be like. Whether you choose a fancy catered gala or a relaxed friendly potluck is up to you, but no matter your choice, think about the right invitation to match that vibe.

Bring some physical pictures or clear descriptions of that kind of party with you. Show the salesperson in the stationary store your collection of images and ideas for the party itself, so that he or she can help you find appropriate elements for your custom printed invitations. He or she will know the options and the stock well, so will be able to make thematic design suggestions.

In addition to bringing photos from magazines or the internet, work with your spouse to come up with a short list of descriptive words. These should describe both the anniversary party, and the feeling of your ideal invitations. For example, do you want something warm and relaxed, or elaborate and fancy? Share a list of five to ten adjectives with the salesperson, to help them guide you.

Have a conversation about your budget before you meet with a salesperson. If you and your spouse agree that you are willing to spend a specific maximum amount per invitation, you will be able to work with the stationary expert to meet your goals. If you're not sure what you are allowing yourselves to spend, it can be confusing and frustrating for everyone involved.

Have an exit strategy, for if you need a break, or if one of you has decided this vendor isn't the right fit for you. You and your spouse should choose a code word that means you want to go outside and talk privately, one on one. Something like "I think the parking meter is going to run out" is discrete, and will let you leave without hurting your salesperson's feelings.

Shopping together and designing your invitations can be a fun activity as a couple. It's a great part of an anniversary celebration to collaborate on your purchase, and create something you are proud of that reflects your unique bond. Have fun combining your tastes and personalities in your invitation, just like you do in your romantic partnership!




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