Understanding Love Addiction Therapy Versus Sex Addiction

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By Catherine Smith


When it comes to sex addiction, there remains some controversy as to whether or not the condition actually exist. As one might imagine, the same goes for Love Addiction Therapy. While this is the case, those effected by these conditions continue to argue the point.

The differences between these addictions while closely related are separate and apart from another with regards to the definitions, symptoms and therapies. For, when it comes to sex, individuals can have urges which are beyond control of the individual. As such, this often creates issues with a number of other people over time. For, sex addicts are often known to take advantage of others whether through false impressions such as lying about being married or sexual assault. Whereas, when it comes to love, individuals often mistake sexual attraction to others for love while expecting a long-term commitment only to be later disappointed.

While this is the case, the definition of this type of addiction includes having a compulsive pattern with regards to relationships, sexuality and romance. In many cases, these compulsive behaviors can have negative effects for addicts and partners. In fact, these addictions often end in failed marriages, legal issues, custody battles and sexually transmitted diseases.

Suggested symptoms include mistaking sexual attraction for romantic interest. In addition, individuals who always feel alone, desperate and inadequate when not in a relationship may be exhibiting signs. Individuals having a constant presence on dating websites and chat-lines can also be indicative of this type addiction. Whereas, anyone who always falls in love at first sight, on a first date, online or over the phone can also be exhibiting signs.

While still controversial, there are now therapies which can help both type addicts overcome these urges. Some of these therapies include learning how to set and maintain boundaries when it comes sex. Whereas, others focus on learning how to achieve legitimate intimacy and build healthy relationships over time.

These addicts often need to be cautious of becoming involved with sex addicts. While it can often be difficult to know if someone is a sex addict or otherwise, there are often signs. For example, when meeting someone new, if the individual attempts to make a move, is rejected and yet continues to do so, this person may very well be a sex addict.

When it comes to heartbreak, both have caused much pain in this area. For, whether one is the addict or partner, there is often disappointment when a relationship ends. Whether that be a long-term marriage or a casual dating relationship, there is often one person whom experiences more pain than the other.

Ultimately, the addict or partner has to speak up about having an addiction. For, eventually there will be signs which can not be ignored. As such, the sooner one identifies such addiction, the sooner the individual can get help.




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