Rules And Jewish Interfaith Marriage

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By Amanda Anderson


There are many rules to follow and much to know about when having a function of this kind. A Jewish interfaith marriage is quite common practice these days as opposed to centuries ago when it was not done at all or done in secrecy. Today it is accepted that couples from different denominations of faith want to live their lives together but do want to have a ceremony of this kind.

Interfaith Rabbis are there to assist with any questions the couple may have and will suggest ways in overcoming obstacles when discussing the ceremony itself or talking about what is and what is not permissible with food laws. The couple will obviously have attendees from both religions but usually it is the one who is Jewish that must make the effort to accomodate all those guests that will be attending. This is not as confusing as it may seem as a simple way to navigate this course is to use an accepted kosher caterer.

It is not that complicated if one sticks to certain guidelines. If meat will be served then one will have to leave out milk products as these two items may not be served at the same time. Usually, it is custom and law among observant Jews to wait six hours after consuming meat products before partaking of anything milky.

So if meat will be served it has to be kosher and approved by a Beth Din or Jewish court of law. This is not too difficult to overcome as there are many caterers who have been approved by this governing body and can be consulted with regarding this. If one is going to go it alone and cater the function themselves then there is a lot that needs to
be learnt before one gets into the kitchen and starts preparing.

So if it is meat that will be served remember not to serve it with any milk products as customarily one has to wait six hours after eating meat before milk can be consumed. Jews know this by heart so will be deeply disappointment if this be done. Milk can be eaten with fish so this is an option to explore especially if one does not eat meat but will prefer fish.

The other option is deciding whether or not to serve fish and milk together. This is permissible and all that is required by law is that the fish served is kosher which means that it must have both scales and fins. This is really the crux of it all and this can be discussed at length with a caterer whilst perusing the options available.

It is a time for celebration and nothing should detract one from this. Having an interfaith wedding, if done properly, will be spoken about in years to come. It is a great day for the couple.

It is best to consult with the experts and find someone who knows a bit about this subject. This can be found in a Rabbi who officiates occasions such as this. It is a time to be enjoyed so with the right preparation, all will succeed.




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