Fail forward rather than crumble down.
Failure, while tough at times, is one of our greatest chances to grow and elevate ourselves in our pursuit of achieving our goals and dreams.
Nonetheless there is another crucial part to the equation of failure that we don't really cover that much. I would like to talk about our mistakes. Making mistakes is a part of life and good lord have I made plenty of mistakes in mine. You say it, I've probably done it. Fact is, we have made numerous mistakes which are the events that shape our lives. Mistakes and disasters go hand in hand. Much of the time though, our mistakes are on a much softer scale. However, they truly are important to our shaping into becoming someone better. You can learn much from succeeding, but you can learn a whole lot more from things that don't work.
Edison learned more about electricity in failing over 1,000 times then he might have in nailing the electric-light bulb in the 1st try. He wouldn't have gone on to be the amazing inventor he was if he didn't fail so much. What actually mattered though, was the incontrovertible fact that he didn't let his mistakes discourage him. He knew, better than any person, that this was all just a part of the journey and at the end he would be encircled in light. He eventually was.
We are going to mess up. We will have momenst where we are to snap, push the people away we adore, ask for things we presumed we wanted, make rash decisions, hurt those close to us, do things that are out of our character, get wasted, say things we don't mean, break guarantees, break hearts, hate, fear, talk smack, tear things apart, burn things down, the list is unending of the types of mistakes we will make in our lives. But when we turn mistakes which can honestly be fixed into failures, which take masses of superglue and gaffer tape to fix, it is often because we didn't own up to what we have done.
Own it.
This is when we really learn. This is when we grow. It happens to be one of the hardest things to take a look at yourself in the mirror and say "I have gotten something wrong, and I am really going to fix it. I have let myself down." But as rough as that is, our owning up to mistakes is among the most powerful things we possess.
We should truly expect better out of ourselves than to cower away by not taking responsibility.
We created the issues, now, we should do what really is critical to fix them. Take full ownership. If you have hurt some other person, then it is even more important to own up to what done and fix it. It doesn't matter how embarrassed you are, or how fearful you are, fix it. Probabilities are, if you talk from your heart and you are honest, they will forgive you. You owe them an apology, and most of all, you owe it to yourself to fail forward from your mistakes and grow.
Honesty is a great foundation to build your life upon.
Have the courage to act.
Failure, while tough at times, is one of our greatest chances to grow and elevate ourselves in our pursuit of achieving our goals and dreams.
Nonetheless there is another crucial part to the equation of failure that we don't really cover that much. I would like to talk about our mistakes. Making mistakes is a part of life and good lord have I made plenty of mistakes in mine. You say it, I've probably done it. Fact is, we have made numerous mistakes which are the events that shape our lives. Mistakes and disasters go hand in hand. Much of the time though, our mistakes are on a much softer scale. However, they truly are important to our shaping into becoming someone better. You can learn much from succeeding, but you can learn a whole lot more from things that don't work.
Edison learned more about electricity in failing over 1,000 times then he might have in nailing the electric-light bulb in the 1st try. He wouldn't have gone on to be the amazing inventor he was if he didn't fail so much. What actually mattered though, was the incontrovertible fact that he didn't let his mistakes discourage him. He knew, better than any person, that this was all just a part of the journey and at the end he would be encircled in light. He eventually was.
We are going to mess up. We will have momenst where we are to snap, push the people away we adore, ask for things we presumed we wanted, make rash decisions, hurt those close to us, do things that are out of our character, get wasted, say things we don't mean, break guarantees, break hearts, hate, fear, talk smack, tear things apart, burn things down, the list is unending of the types of mistakes we will make in our lives. But when we turn mistakes which can honestly be fixed into failures, which take masses of superglue and gaffer tape to fix, it is often because we didn't own up to what we have done.
Own it.
This is when we really learn. This is when we grow. It happens to be one of the hardest things to take a look at yourself in the mirror and say "I have gotten something wrong, and I am really going to fix it. I have let myself down." But as rough as that is, our owning up to mistakes is among the most powerful things we possess.
We should truly expect better out of ourselves than to cower away by not taking responsibility.
We created the issues, now, we should do what really is critical to fix them. Take full ownership. If you have hurt some other person, then it is even more important to own up to what done and fix it. It doesn't matter how embarrassed you are, or how fearful you are, fix it. Probabilities are, if you talk from your heart and you are honest, they will forgive you. You owe them an apology, and most of all, you owe it to yourself to fail forward from your mistakes and grow.
Honesty is a great foundation to build your life upon.
Have the courage to act.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to take the journey of your life? Dive into these life is too short quotes to explore the meaning of living in the present!
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